Cabinets Make Me Happy!

Obviously the house will come together while I’m not able to see it.  It is just someone playing a joke on me…much like the rest of this scenario!  Little does the jokester know…not too much will keep me away from this house.  Well….except the new baby.  They’ll keep me away for a little bit!  Hoping anyone who stops by will take lots of pictures to send me & that I’ll be out there as soon as possible to check on the progress!

For now…I got to see the beginning of my kitchen & I’m getting really excited 🙂

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Tiles, floor finishing, painting, electric finish & some misc stuff left & we’ll be home!!!!!

7 Days…

1 week from now (if not sooner) I will be getting in the car and heading to hospital.  There’s a little girl here who just told me in the most excited voice…

“Mommy…when’s the baby coming out?”  I told her soon.  “I’m so so so excited!  I am going to be so gentle with it!  I will not hit it’s head!”

It’s always a good day when the laughs start at 7am!

I think she’s gonna be the best big sister….and I know she’s the cutest!

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1 more week….

In other exciting LKSquared news….our kitchen & bedroom cabinets are getting installed today!  The countdown is on for the boys of CMT Construction…the lists are made, the emails are flying, and I can’t wait until we are home!!!

 

9 Days…

How is it possible that in 9 days I will have 2 children?  I haven’t even mastered having 1 child yet…what the HELL am I going to do with 2?!?!  I know…zillions of people do it, and so can I….but for real????  This is scary stuff.

I think Miss A knows I’m scared….I just turned around and asked her what she was doing and found her with a wipe and she said “I’m cleaning”…good girl A!

I was all of 13 months old when my sister came to change our family and my life forever…I didn’t know anything, and I can’t remember life without her, but Miss A is just about 3 and she’s in for the shock of her life.  She’s so used to being the only child, getting all of the attention, and having us at her beck and call….duh duh duhhhhhhhh….that is all about to change!  I keep talking to her every night and telling her that when the baby comes home and is out of Mommy’s belly, I will still always love her.  She’s got no clue!

My Dr. is now across the world in Hong Kong until next Saturday.  I will be taking it ridiculously easy from today on…and I hope that on April 8th, as scheduled…this baby comes!

AThe only child enjoying the wonder of bubbles with her best friend!

Making Lemonade…

Sour lemonade….but I guess it is better than straight lemons 😉

I haven’t really gotten too used to living in this new place.  I acclimated to living in Brooklyn when I moved in with Mister LK, and I really enjoyed it.  I like to think of myself as adaptable.  I just can’t adapt here.  I think it is a different planet or something?  But I’m trying to make the best of it…so on days when Miss A is not in school, we try to find something to do that is not “sit at home and watch tv”.  Last month it was a particularly warm day and we decided we would check out the Staten Island Zoo.

First, they put this fun picture spot outside one of their exhibits…Image

So Miss A was really excited about seeing the penguins.  Womp Womp….no matter where we searched, there were no penguins.  We checked everywhere…Image

We did find a leopard.  A single leopard.  And while this cat was beautiful…when Miss A said “Where is his mommy???”, my heart about broke.  

ImageWe decided it was time to head out to the children’s petting zoo … we passed an Emu and again she said “Mommy…where’s the bird’s friends, he’s all alone”.  Why is this kid so damn smart???? Thankfully right next to that were a pair of sea otters playing and that made sense to her.  

We ended up with a favorite part of the zoo….the donkeys.  ImageImage

She pet the donkey & said “OK … Let’s go home”  

1 hour of entertainment for $8.  I guess it could have been worse!

So far we’ve tried the Zoo, the Children’s Museum, the mall….and we’re about out of places to go.  I know there are a few parks that are closed since the storm, and I have a recommendation for another that is open but it has been too cold…hoping we’re home soon & can play with our friends without an hour+ drive & $500 in tolls!

 

My Valentine

I know it is March.  I know Valentine’s Day was last month, but … I’m playing catch up.  I’ve been sick and up all night for about a month (getting ready for that newborn thing again I guess?)…and oh yea – I’m 9 months pregnant.  This pregnant with a toddler is H A R D! 

So anyway … my little Valentine stole my heart this year.  She was continuing on her nice streak & it was a school day!  Winning!

ImageImageImageHope everyone had a nice Valentine’s Day … a month ago!  

Hoping to get the rest of our life updated on here very soon!

 

Happy Birthday Auntie E!

We tried calling….we posted on facebook….and now we’re saying it here….

Happy Birthday to the amazing Auntie E!!!!!!!  We can’t wait to see you and give you lots of hugs and kisses – although we should wait until the eye drops have taken effect since Miss A has a case of the pink eye.  That is her present to me on your birthday.  She’s so thoughtful!

ImageWe hope you had a wonderful day today & that all of your birthday wishes come true!  You are the best Aunt & Miss A is lucky to have you 🙂

xoxo

All the LK Family

 

Happy Toddler = Happy Mommy

We recently got a phone call from our family therapist checking in on us.  I couldn’t believe it myself, but when I sat on my couch and thought about Miss A and what she has been up to lately, I actually said out loud….”She’s been really nice to me lately!”  With everything going on, I can now add to my list of things that are driving me crazy, a chronic cough and congestion, but I can almost positively take the chronically irrational toddler off that same list!  (knock on wood!)  We all have our moments here in the LK house, but we seem to have gotten into a routine that includes smiling and politeness and compromise!  I can’t express how nice it is to have fun instead of spending all our time in time-out!

This Valentine’s day, Miss A will spend having a party in school, while I am at the Dr getting a better look at this crazy cough.  Don’t be jealous!  I’ll be thinking about this smile all day long though 🙂

A on sled 2

 

Mister LK will be at work and he probably won’t even remember it is the hallmark holiday until he reads this!  But we love him & hope he’s having a great day!

A on Daddy 1

 

I hope the moody toddler part was the phase, and this happy girl is the more permanent version of my girl!  I’m sure she’s hoping the same thing about me!  It is really curious to think that at 8 months I have finally come out of my moodiness … when I’m the most uncomfortable I’ve been and I’ve been pretty sick and have I mentioned that I haven’t slept more than 3 hours in the last 3 days?!  I really hope I’m not jinxing myself here, and if I am, this post is coming down ASAP!

Happy Valentine’s Day everyone!  I hope you get to spend it with the one(s) you love!

Mommy &; A

There’s Nothing Like This Love…

ImageHappy Birthday Grandma I.  We love you more than all the sand at all the beaches.  More than all the peanut butter and jelly sandwiches on the earth.  We’re so lucky to have the best best friend.  We love you.  Happy Birthday!  Love all the LKs

 

Happy Birthday to our #1 Niece!

Cousin S turns 4 today!  Holy hell how did that happen?  4 years ago today, we met Auntie H at the hospital at 6am in her purple sweatshirt, and at 9:20am we got our first girl!  Red haired and rosy cheeked.  She was sweet as sugar then, and she hasn’t changed at all!  Well…except that she’s a big girl now, a big cousin, a big sister and a big love!  

We love you cousin S!!!!!!  We hope you have the happiest birthday ever!  We will see you later to party like princesses!

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All I’ve Ever Wanted…

In light of the fact that there are 4 amazingly important weddings coming up in the fall, 4 couples who I love enormously….I’d like to write a little something about how I feel about weddings.

I was never one of those girls who had “visions” of her wedding.  I had visions of a husband.  I had rules and deal breakers and must haves and must have nots.  I took my relationship experiences and learned a lot from each of them, familial and romantic.  I wanted a person who was perfect for me.  That…is all I ever wanted.

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Weddings are to me, a super fun party where all the people you love come to celebrate the union of two people who are in love.  Nothing more than a party.  The things that people care about like flowers, table settings, colors, dresses, seating charts, food…it was all secondary to the fact that I would be marrying my best friend.  And in my case…he also had to love my best friend…

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I loved the party planning, the venue hunting, the dress shopping, the inspiration photos…but in the end of the day…none of it made my wedding as special as this guy…

mister lkTo all of our friends and family getting all wedding ready…I hope you really enjoy your planning, but don’t lose sight of why you’re doing it all!  At the end of this, you’ll be married to your best friend.  It won’t always be easy.  It won’t always be as fun as you think it will be.  It will be as good as you make it.  You’re going to learn things about the other person that will make you like them less, but love them so much more.  It is work, but it feels a lot less like work when you know that you didn’t go into this disillusioned.  They are dealing with the same feelings about you.  You’re their best friend in the world.  You are partners.  You’re on the same side.  Colors and napkins and flowers…they mean some pretty pictures…marrying the one person that is perfect for you means a lifetime of happiness and security.

Thank you Mister LK for making our whole wedding planning super simple and non-stressful.  I can’t say the last 3.5 years have been stress-free…we have a crazy kid and one on the way…I’d be insane to call that stress-free!…but I can say that I would not have wanted to go through any of this with anyone else!  I love you so so so much.  You’re an amazing husband and the best dad I know.

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I can’t wait to dance the fall away with all of our friends and family!