Surviving Motherhood…

Motherhood is…Just like PMS.

You’re always cranky, something always hurts, you can always cry at the drop of a hat, you can’t remember Sh*t, the little things get to you in a big way, you just want to lay in bed with the blinds closed and no noise….

but what makes it different from PMS is this…

No matter what anyone says…g-d makes them this cute as a defense mechanism.  This is love like I’ve never known before.  No matter how crazy she drives me, I still love her more than life itself.  I might be bald from pulling all my hair out in frustration, I might be completely drained and can barely move at the end of each day, but nothing I’ve experienced in my life can compare to laying in the grass with this little girl running toward me, throwing herself in my lap laughing.  I credit my survival to my friends & family.  1 friend and loyal reader I’d like to mention today…

Our NC family…A, without our commiserating almost daily about how completely insane our children are, and laughing through the “how will we get through this” moments, without your patience of a saint that I aspire to, your ability to literally do anything and find the happy in it, your ability to see situations from perspectives I don’t have, your candidness, honesty & willingness to say the things I need to hear…I’m not sure I could be the mother I am.  I am so lucky that you married R.  I can’t imagine a more perfect person for my best friend.  He’s so lucky…and really, besides him, so am I!  I needed a mother friend like you….if only you lived closer!!!

Some Happy Birthday Notes…

(*** I don’t know why this didn’t post this morning!!!***)

We want to wish a very happy birthday to 2 awesome people!  Our friend E & Uncle B!

Uncle B,

We love you a lot & wish you the happiest birthday ever!  Thanks for taking care of Auntie S2 & making sure she’s happy!  We can’t wait to see you soon!

Love,

Baby A

Auntie S2 & Uncle B @ the LK's wedding

Dear E,

We wish you the happiest birthday ever!  You’re the best!  You let me play with all of PD’s things, you carry me around when I get jealous that you’re holding PD, you feed me very yummy food, you let me play with that singing bunny my mom thinks is creepy…and so much more!  Thanks for always having patience with me even when my mommy doesn’t!  I think I should thank you for walking with mommy and me on the boardwalk, but the part of me that hates that stroller and hates being strapped in wants you to never walk with her again!  I wish I could make you a pretty cake like you made me for my birthday…maybe I’ll try!

I hope you have a great year & I can’t wait to spend the summer playing with you and PD!

Love,

Baby A

E & PD on the beach!

Sun + Fun + Friends = Great Vacation!

Add KIDS to that equation, you get a fantastic FAMILY Vacation.  This was our first family vacay.  It was most certainly much different than our vacations pre-baby.  #1 reason = no sleeping in.  Not even close!  Our little girl sleeps like an angel here at home in her crib….usually from 7:30pm – 8am.  Its great & I love it.  And her.  On vacation however, she thought 5am was the latest she’d sleep to.  It sucked & I didn’t love it.  I still loved her.  This mother thing is weird!

We miss our NC family & can’t wait to do another trip with them soon!

We are spending most of May in Florida!  We head to DISNEY on Friday for Memorial Day weekend.  We’re really excited to get A to the Magic Kingdom.  Anyone reading who has been with a 1 year old *yes I know its too young to remember but it’s a company trip* and has any suggestions for things to do/see for someone so little – leave me comments!!!

In other good news, our little A has entered her terrible 1s.  She is throwing kicking and screaming on the floor fits, fake crying to get her way & testing her mommy’s patience daily!  As the other LK said…she’s so cute as a defense mechanism.  He’s so right!

Vacation OVER :(

We’re back from our trip to the Florida Keys with the G Family.  We had the BEST time.  I am so sad and lonely being home alone with A.  It was way more fun in FL with our friends!

We’re so lucky to have such great friends to share vacation with!  If only we were lucky enough to have them live in NY!

Miss you guys 🙂